While I was pregnant with Jack many people asked me if I was hoping for a boy or a girl. I answered with the standard line, "As long as the baby is healthy, I don't care." Then I usually followed up with the truth: I want a boy.
There are many reasons that I wanted a boy - I like the idea of a big brother for our other kid(s). I feel like I might be a better mom to a boy. And most importantly, I really loved watching Jacob's relationship with his dad. His dad was not only a wonderful teacher, role model, and supporter but a great friend too. He balanced his roles well and that is (in my opinion) one of the reasons he was a wonderful father. I desired for Jacob to have that relationship with a son. I am so thankful for my father in law's guidance in Jacob's life and I look forward to watching this new father/son relationship grow.
Jacob is doing his best to form a strong relationship with Jack now. He reads to him, plays with him on the floor, prays with him every night as we put him in bed, and just likes to bounce him on his lap. This leads us into the point of this whole blog post: Jacob is the best baby burper out there.
Ok, I know this may seem silly and not very important. It's easy to get a baby to burp, right? Wrong! For some reason, I can't get Jack to burp. I put him over my shoulder, give him a few pats, and nothing. I bounce him on my lap, and nothing. Nothing. Luckily he doesn't need to burp too much when he is nursing. We are just fine while Jacob is a work. The burps become more necessary when Jack takes a bottle. This is where Jacob's job comes in. Jacob puts him on his lap, bounces him up and down, and boom- there is a burp. Simple as that. Not only does he burp just once, but two or three times. It now seems to be a game for them. He burps and then they both smile and look my way. They must get some amusement out of this skill. I guess it is a guy thing. I see the early signs of the fun relationship they are going to have. And it started over a burp.
Oh, and Jack says excuse me to all of the people that were sitting near us at church this morning.
Jacob has been cooking with Jack. Last night was braised short ribs with a blue cheese and rosemary polenta. The term of the evening was
mirepoix. The dinner was delicious, although Jack was sound asleep by the time it was ready. Hopefully someday Jack will enjoy cooking with his dad. I can't wait to watch it happen.
One last thing. Jacob's father was a romantic. He loved my mother in law well and showed her that all of the time. He opened doors for her, stood up as she left the table, spoke kindly of her always, and was not afraid to show her a little affection in public. Luckily for me, Jacob was a keen observer. He is a true gentleman and treats me so well. Hopefully Jack is taking notes. While out running errands yesterday he picked up these flowers for me. How sweet was that?